Monday, December 23, 2019

Goal setting...

...is overrated. I sincerely think that. While we do need some sort of metrics to see how much we have been progressing, if at all, in certain undertakings, in my view the entire "goal setting for increased productivity" mantra has been ridiculously overused. And at this time of the year, I have the similar sentiment about New Year resolutions.

In case you are wondering, this is not some rant aimed at venting out, nor am I in the bad mood. The thing is, for the most part I am enjoying the life as it is, in the sense of journey taking precedence over destination. Therefore, the grand majority of things I do in life, at least those I with passion, need no clear quantification in order to make me happy about them. As long as I enjoy the process and see/feel progress (even if not constant), it is good.

Such attitude is probably what enables me to be in this whole martial artsy thing for a long run, and hopefully with more place and capacity for growth over many more years. And there sure have been accomplishments over time, but I tend to see them more as milestones and highlights along the way, rather than something to be taken as goals in and of themselves. While it was not part of some master plan at the outset, I allow for my motives, goals and aspirations to grow, shift and change organically with age and maturity in training, and in retrospect it seems to have been the right recipe for me.

With that in mind, I actually look forward with optimism for what the future will bring...

Happy holidays!

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